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What It’s Like to Come Back to Facebook

By On July 23, 2014

This post was supposed to be about what my life was like after having cold turkey quit Facebook five months ago in February 2014, why I decided to come back, and what… Read More


What to do when you’re afraid of something (or everything)

By On April 25, 2014

I haven’t been on an intentional quest to conquer my fears, but I’m finding that I have a tremendous number of interlocking fears and nagging anxieties that drag me down and muddy… Read More


Why I’m Taking a Facebook Fast

By On February 22, 2014

I’ve finally admitted it. Things are not working out between me and Facebook. I’m not “above” Facebook. In fact, I love Facebook, but unfortunately, Facebook does not love me back. Facebook does not want… Read More


My Vision and Intentions for 2014

By On January 1, 2014

Happy New Year! I decided to write out my vision and intentions for 2014 in the present tense as affirmations. My vision and intentions for 2014: I date joyfully, with clarity, and… Read More


2013 Annual Review

By On December 27, 2013

2013 was a very interesting year for me. It was a year of simultaneously being very public and very private. Let’s reflect. I stopped dating. I had never taken a break of any… Read More


Sometimes pretty hair changes everything

By On December 13, 2013

This past weekend, I spoke and signed copies of my book Be Your Own Boyfriend at an awesome event called Babehair Bootcamp. In a gorgeously decorated hotel, beautiful and sassy powerhouse Shandi Nichelle… Read More